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TODAY’S IDEA: A daily, 5-minute exercise for adding value to people’s lives
— From No Limits: Blow the CAP Off Your Capacity by John C. Maxwell
Today’s post is a short but profound exercise that comes from the fantabulous book No Limits by John C. Maxwell, leadership guru. (The book is really fantastic AND fabulous, so why not combine that into one word?)
Every day think of ways to add value to people. “Spend 5 minutes every evening thinking about who you will see the next day and ask yourself, what can I say to them, give to them, or do for them that will make our time together be memorable, be unexpected and add value to them?”
That’s it. Easy. Simple. Profound. Life-changing for you and for those to whose lives you will add value. Maxwell says, “This exercise will set you apart from 99 percent of all the other people in the world, and if you do this every evening and then revisit the ideas you come up with the next morning to potentially improve them, you’ll be amazed by the difference you can make for other people.”
The value that you add doesn’t have to be in the form of grandiose, elaborate deeds, unless you want to, of course. The author cites the example of having dinner with a couple of friends who were married, and coming up with three ways to add value to them.
First, since he (the friend) had been the publisher of several of Maxwell’s books over many years, the author thought of telling him how much he appreciated helping him grow as an author. Maxwell specifically thanked him for coming up with the title of one of his famous books (Talent is Never Enough)—to show that he remembered and that he was grateful.
Second, Maxwell added how much he admired the couple for their eagerness to learn in every situation, and especially at Maxwell’s conferences (where they would always take a seat in the front row of and take copious notes), despite them being already very successful.
And third, he asked his friend if they could still do another project together: Maxwell wanted his friend to know that he valued enormously his ability to contribute to his life and success, especially because his friend was 82 years old at the time.
In Dr. Kathryn Scanland’s blog, she recall’s Maxwell telling the story of asking his 9-year-old grandson how he was going to be intentional about adding value the next day to the people around him. The boy said he would open as many doors as possible with a smile. At the end of the day, the boy had opened a total of 42 doors, all with a beautiful smile!
So there you have it. Take a look at your calendar every evening and determine what you will be doing the next day and with whom you’ll be meeting. What are the ways in which you can add value?
“It only takes five minutes, but the opportunities to make a difference are endless.” – John C. Maxwell
ACTION
TODAY: Take five minutes to look at your calendar for the rest of the day and determine how you will add value to the people with whom you will meet.
FUTURE: Create the habit of looking at your calendar the evening before and taking 5 minutes to figure out how you will create value for others. Set that as an intention for your meetings the next day. Then give it another 5 minutes the next morning to revisit the ideas and improve them. You will have a beautiful impact on the lives of others, and your life will be all the better for it.
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