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EntreGurus-Book-Hug Your Customers-Jack MitchellTODAY’S IDEA: Hugging is a mindset

— From Hug Your Customers: The Proven Way to Personalize Sales and Achieve Astounding Results by Jack Mitchell

Jack Mitchell is the Chairman of the Mitchell Stores. These high-end apparel boutiques provide such exceptional customer service, that Mitchell Stores is a case study at Harvard Business School.

What makes Jack Mitchell and his stores so special? The fact that they hug their customers. Mitchell says, “In some instances, we physically hug the customers—I’ve seen sales associates actually give customers a bear hug and then dance with them around the floor—but we mainly metaphorically hug them by showering them with attention in a way that every business ought to but doesn’t. […] That’s what Mitchell’s is about: making people say ‘Wow!’ ” And it’s true, I kept thinking wow! many times as I read through Hug Your Customers.

Mitchell defines hugging “as a mindset more than a physical act. It’s a way of thinking about customers… in the simplest sense, a hug is anything that exceeds a customer’s expectations.” For instance, Mitchell recalls a time when the new Chief Financial Officer of a large corporation went into his store. He (Mitchell) greeted him and congratulated him on his company’s stock rising $5 the previous day. Needless to say, the CFO was blown away. That’s what he means by a metaphoric hug.

And just as clothing, hugs come in all sizes: one time Mitchell flew a suit on a corporate jet to Tokyo for the son of a customer who needed it the next day. He also recalls lending his very own top coat to a customer who needed it right away (and happened to be the same size) while the customer’s coat arrived two days later. And at another point a customer brought in a dress she had purchased at another luxury store to get it altered in a hurry, and they did it for her.

It’s important to highlight that everyone hugs differently, “and that’s the way it should be,” says Mitchell. “You adopt the hug that works for you and your customer… Some people are comfortable giving a bear hug. Others recoil at anything too physical. That’s fine. Those people like to shake hands, or give a high five, or look you in the eye, or send personal notes.”

Mitchell states that one of the best hugs is a letter of thanks, and it’s a bonus hug if it’s handwritten or if you handwrite a note on the side of a typed letter. As an exercise, he once sat down to write a list of different hugs and got to 33 before his hand started cramping. I suggest you do the same for your customers or clients. What can you do for them that will create that wow! response? I’m adding below some of the hugs in Mitchell’s list hoping they will spark some ideas in you (some of them won’t apply to your business, but think about equivalents that work for you).

  • Offer someone a beverage or snack
  • Carry their bags to the car
  • Send a birthday card
  • Send an anniversary card
  • Remember names
  • Sew on a button
  • Press pants
  • Call when you say you will
  • Send flowers on a holiday
  • Send flowers after a big sale
  • Call and invite to lunch at the store
  • Make reservations for someone at an exclusive restaurant
  • Get tickets to a ball game or the theater
  • Open the store after hours for private appointments
  • Have a liberal return policy that allows you to give money back with a smile
  • Call another store to get something you don’t have
  • Show product knowledge
  • Smile
  • Resolve credit issues instantly
  • Give a firm handshake
  • Look a customer in the eye as a friend who cares
  • Exchange business cards
  • Telephone someone who’s sick to show you care
  • Send an email (especially to people who travel internationally)
  • Listen

Happy hugging!

ACTION

TODAY: Make a list of the ways in which you can hug your customers. You’ll be surprised as to the difference that even small details can make!

FUTURE: Adopt the hugging mindset. Keep your list of hugs handy and keep adding to it. Get together with your team and brainwrite ways in which you can hug your customers more and more often. Determine which hugs you can turn into policies so as to serve your clients better and offer an exceptional experience.

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