by Helena Escalante | Creativity, Goals, Growth, Mindset, Opportunity, Planning, Tools
Estimated reading time:Â 2 minutes, 25 seconds.
TODAYâS IDEA: Build your future supported by the past
â From: Habit Changers: 81 Game-Changing Mantras to Mindfully Realize Your Goals by M. J. Ryan
M.J. Ryan, leading expert and coach on change and human fulfillment, as well as author of Habit Changers, says that a lot of people go to her when they are at a crossroads in their career. âTheyâve gotten into a rut and want support in breaking out of it.â
She helps them out by taking them through a process outlined in the book I Will Not Die an Unlived Life: Reclaiming Purpose and Passion by Dawna Markova. âItâs an examination [of] strengths, passions and values, as well as the environments that bring out [peopleâs] best.â
Once that process is done, Ryanâs clients achieve the clarity they seek. However, she points out, âthe problem is that getting from here to there can feel like standing on one side of the Grand Canyon and trying to figure out how to get to the other side. Itâs easy to feel overwhelmed and stuck.â
So, if youâve ever been there, on the proverbial one side of the Grand Canyon, looking at building a better future on the other side, but have no clue how to get there or where to start, Ryan suggests looking at your past:
âBuild a bridge to the future on the pillars of the past.â
Ryan says, âItâs about remembering to leverage what youâve already done to create the new. [âŚ] Nothing youâve done in the past is a waste. Itâs all grist for your future. Reminding yourself of this will help you figure out how to get from here to there.â
The author explains how she leveraged her book publishing experience when she was branding herself as an executive coach to attract her first clients: they were publishers and writers whom she knew.
Similarly, whether itâs a project that you want to start or a life change that you are about to undertake, think of your past experiences and contacts and build on them to propel you forward.
ACTION
TODAY: What project or change are you about to undergo where you donât necessarily have step-by-step directions? Think of something similar that youâve done in the past and draw from there. Or innovate by taking bits and pieces from your past to build something new.
FUTURE: Stay in touch, every so often, with people from your past. Not only is it truly enjoyable to continue to nurture those friendships and acquaintances, but also it is helpful in case you need them to open doors for you or provide assistance or support. I know I am always happy to hear from people with whom Iâve worked or friends that Iâve made in the past, and Iâm delighted to help in any way I can. Iâm sure your friends and acquaintances will be happy to help as well!
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by Helena Escalante | Accountability, Goals, Growth, Mindset, Planning, Time, Tools
Estimated reading time:Â 4 minutes, 4 seconds.
TODAYâS IDEA: Setting goals with PICS
â From The Personal MBA: Master the Art of Business by Josh Kaufman
As we near the end of the year, the mad rush to achieve our goals begins. We have to meet Q4 goals and quotas, we want to accomplish those things that we said we would do back in January but put off until now, etc.
What happened?
Very likely, what happened is that we set vague goals.
Josh Kaufman, business guru and author of The Personal MBA, says âWell-formed goals accomplish two things: they help you visualize what you want, and make you excited about achieving it.â
Fuzzy goals like: âI want to climb a mountainâ arenât very helpful, because they donât give your brain anything to work with. Which mountain? Where? When? Why? Without answers to these questions, you probably wonât do anything at all.Â
Well-formed goals pass the âEverest Test.â Useful goals look like this: âI want to climb to the summit of Mt. Everest before my fortieth birthday, and take a panoramic picture to frame on my wall as a trophy.â
In this example, this goal would be easy for your brain to envision: Arranging travel to Nepal, improving your climbing skills, searching for a guide, purchasing gear and equipment, buying a panoramic camera, and so on.
Kaufman goes on to say, âOnce you make a conscious choice to achieve the goal, your mind automatically starts finding ways to get it done.â
So, what do we need to set well-formed goals that we can achieve?
Kaufman suggests framing the goals in a Positive, Immediate, Concrete, Specific (PICS) format:
Positive: âRefers to Motivation: your goal should be something you move toward, not away from.â If you have a goal like âI donât want to be fat anymore,â the author says, âYouâre reinforcing the negative instead of [changing] your mindâs prediction to get excited about improving.â
Immediate:Â âRefers to time-scale: your goals should be things that you decide to make progress on now, not âsomedayâ or âeventually.â If you donât want to commit to working on a particular goal now, put it on your someday/maybe list and focus on something else.â
Concrete: âMeans youâre able to see the results in the real world. Goals are achievementsâyou should know when youâve accomplished what you set out to achieve. Setting goals like âI want to be happyâ donât work because theyâre not concreteâhow would you know when youâre done? When you reach the top of Mt. Everest, youâve achieved something concrete.â
Specific:Â âMeans youâre able to define exactly what, when, and where youâre going to achieve your goal. Climbing Mt. Everest on a certain date in the near future is specific, which makes it easy for your mind to plan exactly how youâll go about accomplishing it.â
While all of this is very important to set goals, the part that I find even more important is when the author explains, âFor best effect, your goals should be under your control. Goals like âLosing twenty poundsâ are soul-crushing because theyâre not directly under your controlâlosing weight is a result, not an effort. If your weight randomly moves up a few pounds on a given day, itâs easy to feel defeated, even though you had no choice in the matter… make your goals actions that are within your [control], like thirty minutes of exercise every day and controlling the number of calories you consume.â
Keep track of your goals using whatever system works for you, whether manually or electronically. There are myriad ways to do this: the simpler, the better.
Lastly, Kaufman also reminds us that âitâs perfectly okay to change your goals. Sometimes we think we want something, only to find out later that we donât want it so much anymore. Donât feel bad about thatâitâs called learning. If you find yourself working toward a goal you no longer feel good about, work on something else.â
And now, I will let you go work on framing your goals for the rest of the year. What are you planning to do? Let me know in the comments here, Iâd love to hear what youâre up to.
ACTION
TODAY: What are you looking to achieve during the last two months of this year? November is almost here. Take some time to reframe your goals using PICS to ensure you can achieve them. If your goals are too big, break them down into subgoals that you can indeed achieve in 60 days.
FUTURE: Kaufman asks, âIf you havenât, can you set an arbitrary end state for now, leaving yourself open to course-correction as you progress?â As we move along on our goals, we learn and we course-correct all the time. Be disciplined with your actions to make your goal happen; but be flexible as time goes by and you course-correct (based on your experience of working on your goal), that way you can reach your destination sooner, faster, better, etc.
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by Helena Escalante | Accountability, Goals, Growth, Habits, Mindset, Productivity, Tools
Estimated reading time:Â 3 minutes, 3 seconds.
TODAYâS IDEA: Akrasia
â From The Personal MBA: Master the Art of Business by Josh Kaufman
Have you ever had the experience of knowing or feeling that you should do something that is in your best interest, but you just canât bring yourself to do it?
That is not procrastination. There is a different term for that: Akrasia. (Pronunciation)
âAkrasia is one of the most widespread and persistent barriers to getting things done.â
In The Personal MBA, business guru Josh Kaufman helps us understand the difference:
Procrastination occurs when youâve decided to complete a task, but you keep putting it off until later without consciously deciding to do it later. If you have âanswer e-mailâ on your to-do list, but you browse the Internet for hours without answering any e-mail, thatâs procrastination.
Akrasia is a deeper issue: itâs a general feeling that you “should” do something, without necessarily deciding to do it. The âshouldâ feeling doesnât lead to decision or action, even if the action seems to be in your best interest. Most people experience Akrasia when considering changing habits they no longer want (âI should quit smokingâ), taking a new action (âI should donate to that nonprofitâ), or contemplating an uncomfortable topic (âI should look into life insurance and talk to a lawyer to write a willâ). The âshouldâ feeling sticks around, but never leads to action, generating intense frustration.
Kaufman goes on to say, âAkratic situations can take many forms: eating a cookie vs. âbecoming healthierâ by sticking to a diet. Browsing the web vs. exercising. Staying in a bad relationship vs. moving on. Dreaming about a new business idea vs. testing it. Whenever you ‘should’ do something, but resist doing it, youâre experiencing Akrasia.â
Akrasia is a Greek term, and this problem was already being discussed in ancient Greece by Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle. And even though philosophers have discussed this for centuries, there is no cure. âAkrasia is a slippery problem,â says the author, âand thereâs no easy, universal solution.â
But not all is lost: Kaufman points to many strategies and techniques that are useful in preventing and resolving akratic situations. âIn order to spend your time making progress vs. fighting both sides of a battle of will, itâs useful to have a strategy for recognizing and combatting Akrasia when you recognize it.â
The most important thing, I believe, is to be aware of it. Now that we know it exists, we can point to it, recognize when weâre feeling Akrasia, and move forward to do what we should do.
You can read extensively about the strategies to recognize and combat Akrasia in Kaufmanâs book online. (Kaufman has one full chapterâ54 pagesâdevoted to âWorking With Yourselfâ to combat Akrasia, procrastination and other maladies that impede our own progress as well as become superfocused and productive). Or if you donât have the time now, you can take a quick look at these posts (each takes less than 5 min to read) that will help you shake Akrasia and move forward towards your goals:
Happy un-Akrasing!
ACTION
TODAY: Take some time to see where in your life youâre experiencing Akrasia. We all do, and it behooves us to tackle it to move forward on our goals. Now that we know that Akrasia exists, itâs easier to be aware of it and start taking action.
FUTURE: Keep in mind that weâre all human and we all experience Akrasia. The best way to find out why youâre having Akrasia about something is to ask yourself why 5 times. Once you get to the bottom of it, youâll be able to move forward.
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by Helena Escalante | Creativity, Goals, Growth, Leadership, Mindset, Opportunity, Planning, Tools
Estimated reading time: 3 minutes, 43 seconds.
TODAYâS IDEA: The New Niche
— From LINGO: Discover Your Ideal Customer’s Secret Language and Make Your Business Irresistible by Jeffrey Shaw
In todayâs world, where we often hear that we must âniche down,â because âthe riches are in the niches,â Jeffrey Shaw, entrepreneur, coach, podcaster, and author of Lingo, says, âDitch the niche and diversify!â
Whaaaaaat??!
He explains: âItâs not that niche marketing is inherently bad; it just needs to be redefined.â
He goes on to say that most of us, as the creative thinkers that we are (creative here defined very broadly), âneed freedom from the shackles of a tightly narrowed offering and market. Weâre multipassionate warriors and we donât want to be stuck doing one thing.â
So, what should we do about this?
In Jeffâs podcast and community of Creative Warriors, he refers to following all our passions as chasing squirrels. I own a dog who has tried to climb trees to chase squirrels (!) so I know how crazy this can get… Further, as an entrepreneur myself and a mentor for startups and small businesses, I know that our business minds tend to chase many squirrels too: the (in)famous shiny-object syndrome or SOS that tends to distract and derail us if kept unchecked.
Shaw says, âIâm not saying chasing squirrels is productive. But I am saying the creative thinker is going to do it anyway. Rather than make them feel âsinfulâ for something inherent in being creative, why not figure out how it can be productive? We can make it productive by using the connections between them to unite the squirrels into a herd and then setting that herd off in a productive direction. We can cultivate a new niche.â
And hereâs the key to the New Niche: âThe New Niche is not the one thing you do or the one segment of a market you serve. The New Niche is the space you own, or, you could say, the area of expertise for which you are known.â
Note here that Shaw said âarea,â because your expertise includes many things, so itâs not just constrained to the one thing you do.
âSpace is expansive, even limitless as far as we know and so are the possibilities and creative freedom you have when you become known for the space you own. When you or your business are recognized for the space you own, you gain creative freedom. With clarity about the space you own, you can diversify your business and create multiple streams of income.â
Shaw goes on to explain the idea of the New Niche and the meaning of owning a space: âThe space you ownâas a solo creative entrepreneur or as a companyâis what you are known for. It answers this all-important, fundamental question: Of what will your ideal customers say you are the expert?â
Further, Shaw urges us to imagine overhearing the tail end of a conversation on the street in which a person asks another one for a referral, âOh, [your name or name of business] is the go-to expert for ___________.â
Fill in that blank. âIf you donât know almost immediately how to fill in that blank, then you donât own a space yet.â
In his podcast, Creative Warriors, Shaw interviewed Christopher Lochhead, co-author of the book Play Bigger: How Pirates, Dreamers, and Innovators Create and Dominate Markets. Lochhead refers to owning your space as being a Category King and emphasizes âthe importance of not only being the âkingâ of a category but also being the first in that category.â
To this, Shaw says, âBeing the Category King can certainly give you an advantage. However, for many entrepreneurs, itâs less important to be first. Itâs more important to create a unique category for which you can be recognized and stand out.â
So, what is your New Niche? Let me know in the comments here.
ACTION
TODAY: Answer this question about yourself or your business: âOh, [your name or name of business] is the go-to expert for ___________.â What is the space you own? What is that New Niche of yours? If the answer comes easily, congrats! If not, no worries, give yourself time to think and to come up with the best answer for you.
FUTURE: Claim that space as yours… it is indeed! Make sure you are passionate about it, and that it is marketable, and youâll be golden. Here are some additional posts on this subject: How to apply the Law of the Category to your benefit and Own a word in the prospectâs mind.
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by Helena Escalante | Creativity, Growth, Habits, Leadership, Marketing, Mindset, Miniseries, Planning, Tools
Estimated reading time:Â 3 minutes, 37 seconds.
TODAYâS IDEA: Little things make all the difference-Part 2
â From Anything You Want: 40 Lessons for a New Kind of Entrepreneur, by Derek Sivers.
Yesterday we learned from Derek Sivers some of the things he implemented to make his customers smile during his days as CEO and Founder of CD Baby, an online store for indie musicians.
The key is to be thoughtfulâitâs the little things that make all the differenceâand provide the best service you can in a consistent way.
Letâs continue to learn directly (verbatim) from Sivers the stories of some of the awesome things that he did to turn his customers into raving fans:
Sometimes, after we had done the forty-five minutes of work to add a new album to the store, the musician would change his mind and ask us to do it over again with a different album cover or different audio clips. I wanted to say yes but let him know that this was really hard to do, so I made a policy that made us both smile: âWeâll do anything for a pizza.â If you needed a big, special favor, weâd give you the number of our local pizza delivery place. If you bought us a pizza, weâd do any favor you wanted. When weâd tell people about this on the phone, theyâd often laugh, not believing that we were serious. But weâd get a pizza every few weeks. Iâd often hear from musicians later that this was the moment they fell in love with us.
At the end of each order, the last page of the website would ask, âWhere did you hear of this artist? Weâll pass them any message you write here.â Customers would often take the time to write things like, âHeard your song on WBEZ radio last night.â âSearched Yahoo!â âFound it here.â âIâd love to have you play at our school!â The musicians absolutely loved getting this information, and it always led to the customer and musician getting in touch directly. This is something that big stores like Amazon would never do.
Also, at the end of each order, there was a box that would ask, âAny special requests?â One time, someone said, âIâd love some cinnamon gum.â Since one of the guys in the warehouse was going to the store anyway, he picked up some cinnamon gum and included it in the package. One time someone said, âIf you could include a small, rubber squid, I would appreciate it. If this is unobtainable, a real squid would do.â Just by chance, a customer from Korea had sent us a packaged filet of squid. So the shipping guys included it in the box with the other customerâs CDs. See the customer tell this story himself in this great video.
Itâs no wonder that CD Baby created a legion of fans around them. Sivers and his team were thoughtful, creative, imaginative and always focused on the customer, to the point of going the extra mile to send cinnamon gum and even squid! And âthe whole party marched down the street to the post office where the entire town of Portland waved âBon Voyage!â to [the] package, on its way to [the customer]âŚâ  âThis is another post about Sivers you donât want to miss. Heâs all about making the customers happy.
As you can see, it doesnât take too much money or too much time, and a little playfulness and creativity will take you a long way. Sivers says, âEven if you want to be big someday, remember that you donât need to act like a big boring company. Over ten years, it seemed like every time someone raved about how much he loved CD Baby, it was because of one of these little fun human touches.â
What little things can you do to make your customers happy? Who has made you happy and how? Let me know in the comments here.
ACTION
TODAY: Review your customerâs journey and focus on the many touch points that exist. How can you improve upon those points to make your customer happy[ier]?
FUTURE: As your customers become happier and happier, capture those moments as testimonials in writing or video. This will help prospects make a decision to go with you/your company for its outstanding service, and that way you can perpetuate a virtuous cycle.
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by Helena Escalante | Creativity, Growth, Habits, Leadership, Marketing, Mindset, Miniseries, Planning, Tools
Estimated reading time: 2 minutes, 42 seconds.
TODAYâS IDEA: Little things make all the difference-Part 1
â From Anything You Want: 40 Lessons for a New Kind of Entrepreneur, by Derek Sivers.
âIf you find even the smallest way to make people smile, theyâll remember you more for that smile than for all your other fancy business-model stuff,â says Derek Sivers, entrepreneur and author of Anything You Want.
Sivers was the founder of CD Baby, a very successful online website for indie musicians to sell their music (he sold it later for millions). As a pioneer in this field, he learned many lessons, and one of them was the importance of little details to make people smile.
He shares some of the things that made a huge difference on the CD Baby website. Iâm adding them verbatim below, since I think Sivers writing conveys the stories very well. Enjoy!
Because we shipped FedEx at 5 p.m. each day, customers would often call and ask, âWhat time is it there? Do I still have time to get it sent today?â So I added two little lines of programming code that counted how many hours and minutes remained until 5 p.m. and then showed the result by the shipping options. âYou have 5 hours, 18 minutes until our next FedEx shipment.â Customers loved this!
We answered our phone within two rings, alwaysâ7 a.m. to 10 p.m., seven days a week. Phones were everywhere, so even if the customer service rep was busy, someone in the warehouse could pick up. All anyone had to do was say, âCD Baby!â Customers loved this! Someone actually picking up the phone at a company is so rare that musicians would often tell me later at conferences that it was the main reason they decided to go with CD Babyâthey could always talk to a real person immediately. All employees knew that as long as we werenât completely swamped, they should take a minute and get to know the caller a bit. Ask about her music. Ask how itâs going. Yes, it would lead to twenty-minute conversations sometimes, but those people became lifelong fans.
Every outgoing email has a âFrom:â name, right? Why not use that to make people smile, too? With one line of code, I made it so that every outgoing email customized the âFrom:â field to be âCD Baby loves [first name].â So if the customerâs name was Susan, every e-mail she got from us would say it was from âCD Baby loves Susan.â Customers loved this!
Please come back tomorrow for Part 2 because the things that CD Baby did to make people smile get even better! As you can see, thoughtful details can turn clients into raving fans. What details can you modify or implement to make your customers smile?
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ACTION
TODAY: Think about the positive feedback you get from your customers (customer is broadly defined here). Can you replicate that to make everyone smile? What can you do to always implement those thoughtful details that made the customer smile in the first place?
FUTURE: Make a habit of examining the feedback you get to always be improving your attention to detail. Having customers turn into lifelong, raving fans is a wonderful achievement.
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